Jun 212011
 

Guter Artikel von Freia Peters in der WELT vom 19.06.2011:

Beschimpfungen und Gewalt: So chaotisch geht es an deutschen Schulen zu – Nachrichten Politik – Deutschland – WELT ONLINE

Dieser Artikel entspricht leider der Realität, die ich oftmals von Schülern, Erziehern, Sozialarbeitern und Lehrern zu hören bekomme. Die Berliner staatlichen Schulen in vielen Bezirken drohen gerade abzuschmieren oder sind schon abgeschmiert.

Hauptgrund dafür scheint mir ein Versagen der Familien zu sein, kräftig befördert durch den Staat mit seinem aus dem Fugen geratenen Verwöhnungswesen.

Die deutsche Gesellschaft, geplagt durch chronische Schuldkomplexe, nimmt’s gerne hin. Auf dass die Schuldgefühle in hundert oder tausend Jahren verschwinden mögen. Allein schon das ständige Gelaber von “Armutsverhältnissen” offenbart eine völlige Unbekanntschaft der Sozialapostel mit den tatsächlichen Verhältnissen.
Ich habe da kürzlich den Roman Yalo von Elias Khoury  gelesen. Sehr erhellend! Soweit die Deutschen sich für die Herkunftsländer unserer Zehntausenden und Aberzehntausenden von Sorgenkindern interessieren, sollten sie das Gespräch mit den typischen “neuen deutschen” Jugendlichen suchen – oder diesen Roman lesen. Eine Studie über die permanente Gewaltdrohung, die in den arabischen Ländern herrscht.

Die Kinder und Jugendlichen schlagen bei uns über die Stränge, wo es nur geht. Besonders verheerend: Das deutsche Sozialhilfewesen, das lebenslang, ja über Generationen hinweg ein herrliches, sattes Leben ohne Mühe und Anstrengung garantiert.

Tenor vieler zugewanderten Eltern ist: “Das deutsche Sozialwesen versaut uns unsere Kinder!” “Die Deutschen verlangen nichts von uns. Wir dürfen uns alles herausnehmen. Diese dummen Deutschen!” “Hier liegt das Gold auf der Straße.” “Ja, wenn die Deutschen so blöd sind, uns die ganzen Schulen und die Sozialkassen zu überlassen, dann holen wir uns, was wir kriegen können!” “Die Lehrer sind viel zu nachgiebig. Sie legen es ja darauf an, fertiggemacht zuwerden.”

“Leider ist die körperliche Züchtigung durch den Lehrer an den deutschen Schulen verboten.” In den arabischen Ländern gehört körperliche Züchtigung zur Erziehung selbstverständlich dazu. Ein Schlag auf den Handrücken mit dem Lineal ist Normalität.  Dem Vater steht das Züchtigungsrecht zu. Die Herkunftsländer der Null-Bock-Lernverweigerer sind viel stärker von Gewaltausübung geprägt als Deutschland. Folter und Gewalt durch den Staat haben ferner über Jahrhunderte hinweg eine Untertanen-Mentalität erzeugt, die keinerlei Milde oder gutes Zureden mehr ernstnehmen kann. Die Menschen, die in den arabischen Herkunftsländern oder in anderen Ländern unterdrückte Untertanen des autoritären Staates waren, nehmen an der deutschen Gesellschaft  gewissermaßen Rache für das durch die eigenen Machthaber erlittene Unrecht.

Was tun? Ich habe mich mit vielen zugewanderten Eltern unterhalten. Wir kommen zu folgenden Schlüssen:

1) Mehr Disziplin ist das A und O. Mehr Heavyhandedness, mehr Zucht und Ordnung in der Klasse ab Jahrgang 1 sind ein Muss!

2) Es wäre falsch, immer nur auf gutes Zureden zu setzen. Strenge ist angesagt. Das Einhalten von Regeln muss eingefordert werden.

3) Ebenso wichtig: Vertrauen in den Menschen setzen! Die Kinder und Jugendlichen müssen sich emotional angenommen, aber auch gefordert fühlen.

4) Abspecken der Sozialhilfe ist ebenso heilsam.

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